But the 'tangents'...

 years i have been at 'this' especially 2014-23

And i sometimes forget to 'join' the dots, trying to write that one perfect three paragraphs...

to nuke some creep or publisher or rich fake ... into action or just buying a caffeejar tip thing (see ralphschism i need to schism from- a waste of time but I enjoyed it)

especially when in 2016-19 trying to keep a load of utterly lost men on the same page re brexit action... 

(email to Elly - i never told a soul until today) on one SANE 'page'... 

 

On a  walk it returns 

I am never off duty... even if i never get ourt devices (escept for protection)

last post Time etc...

and the wo/man one... it linked to.

Women girls doesnt matter what you call the babes... they mentored us.

However.... one hates to be exclusive, but the thing is you can tell... (women friends confirm this to metoo) 

the younger women who rightly put us younger men in our places.. be it under their hems or just on the naughty step..

THEY WERE THE YOUNG WOMEN WHO GENERALLY HAD HAD A VERY SECURE DAUGHTER-DAD RELATIONSHIP...

I have seen all my life how those good d-d relationship babes are different... esteemed for real (rather than performed) tough no nonsense... 

so if (as radio 4 chan covered in the Rosie Boycott 3 long talks with a  coven of other chatterati famous Guardian Readerish  wimmin..it was rather good i listened... on 'feminism'  gosh 2011 or 12... it ended with a very very  fearful gaggle  all chiming in:  " but the elephant in the room girls, is the MILLIONS of young women nowadays who have limited or no experience of their dad...my my that's not good... it don't bode well..." 

 the line: or two..so many younger women for some years or decades are those, it is the ultimate 'vicious circle'...  the hardnosed no nonsense girls are no longer there to whip the bad boys into shape...

As, give them a dose of this absurd pornographer TAte and only a tough-girl will knock the sense back into our boys..

errata YOURS..

i did 25 years of every second on 'this' ...and guess what not one stupid Britisher woman or man... ever actually helped...

SO, it ain't my ultimate dead end.... down Mr Cormac's  [ a joke, incrowd] rather unpleasant ..Road...

 

 

TIME ("lost boys")

 April  2025. 

I am spinning up to try again to get a publisher for the story of 2003-6 .. (i was offered a book contract 2006 but was too busy actually parenting my child at that time ) however 

the last 5 or 6 weeks i have attempted especially to get some interest in essays  etc on what i merely call (to my daughter, the only one who really matters to me) 'gender politics'.

Because that is all it is. 

I care... apart from anything else 'gender politics' has utterly ruined the Green movement that for especially the last 10 years i myself re-entered almost full time (much earlier knowledge of from the 70s and involvement in 1990s ) ...on behalf of my daughter's generation.

Gender politics utterly blights simple Green lobbying and causes terrible problems obtaining the necessary 'solidarity' I write a lot about this here and there...
(there is so so much of the "you cannot say that" and all associated oversensitivities whereby it often seems that Greens are more at war with one another - especially if different sexes, than the actual enemy, the polluters.

this stand alone  page 

https://www.simonclayton2020.com/p/woman.html

has been here a while  in fact - cloaked until now, by invite only, and  is called wo/man

a first draft riff on matters between the sexes i know few dare even touch upon.

Never mind a summary of just how i myself dedicated every minute of a decade to giving my own kids as much real  'experience' of humanity as possible....despite living often on absolutely nothing in the bank...

These last few  months we have had societal overload on 'masculinity' - the "lost boys"

Here are two segments on radio 4 Today program 17th MArch 2025  including the famous Gareth Southgate speech about crisis in the world of young men

two audio files in my google filestore

https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1dfpkHkeneJYmuE8_nYQELpQeTIu0zP-I?usp=sharing

THERE IS MORE TO GO IN  - some more useful clips...this is just a first quickest last gasp draft.

These sorts of increasingly hysterical 'expert' men polemics only exasperate me..

Although they mean well and even include lines like "being a physical presence in the room"  and "present in the lives of our boys" 

they miss THE bigger real issues - two: firstly yes TIME... however, my whole adult life but especially the last 10 or so years ALL i see and hear (speaking with parents of both sexes about family issues) is they have no time.... they are endlessly  frazzled and even suffering sleep issues - not much good when they do have time...

This comes ONLY from one cause- the rat race.... the explosion in needs to define oneself through expensive consumer items, from the 'compulsory' 500 quid new fangled pram to the status motor car you even see all over the 'working class' backstreets.

It is impossible to chase Mammon, and also have the one-to-one time children need from very early on, always...

This was well and truly covered in Oliver JAmes wonderful book Affluenza in the mid 10s ... and simply put that bpook is summarised in apart from so many parents even then lost to consumerism etc., we ALL knew - as did the expert class, that leaving a  child at home (BOTH parents sharing in childcare) until 5 years old as minimum - its more likely 6 in much of Europe...is psychologically far better for the child longterm...

  But what has happened in the last 20 years? .. on average children were put into full time primary school  around 4 1/2 going on 5 ..or daycare a year or so earlier...

nowadays 95% of parents (and their peers) one hears speaking of their plans they are DESPERATE to get them into school from about the first week they legally can - i think thats at their 4th birthday....and into nursery from under 1 year old

It became the absurd gerrymandering vote grabber of every labour candidate  in each of the last few elections " we will give you  15 / 30 hours per week ..whatever...free guaranteed nursery care from ...  "  i think it is a year old now..

this is madness. 

It is impossible to chase MAmmon, and also have the one-to-one time children need from very early on, always......

I know as i chose to do the latter...only. All else was left behind... i didn't care if i had a £300 banger (as we did)  because i put the (earning) time ONLY into my daughter.

She came to the planet as computers were taking off. She would be 'allowed'  an hour in the morning.... on a computer. Using it usefully...

She never ever once moaned later on ion the day or evening that she wanted to be on the little machine BECAUSE she had had usually most of the day (prior to fiveish) and after school (5-11) so much physical tiring fun or useful actiuvity either with her dad or set up and put in place by dad (e.g. many animals - we had virtually a zoo in our garden) she was by teatime always so tired out in a good way...both of us were good for little else than a bit of a dvd - intelligent movies, a few pages of a book....and off we pop to the land of z

Secondly, all this 'menshed' mentoring... and i write this as someone a man who i know has put more of my last 25 year 100% into being there (or fixing after she was unlawfully stolen off)  as a father...every day for 25 years most of my mental energy (still) is dedicated to the best for my one child

. ..  so all the menshed mentoring...footie coach friend (often 'paid friends') is to me absolute bullshit. For young people it is just as much and probably MORE important they are equally 'mentored' by females - mother, sister,   schoolfriend.... certainly as  they get into the second part of their teens....i know it 'saved my life' the girls at my ordinary comprehensive school civilising me... a bit, at least.... which continued into my 20s...

In fact the really great influences one may find (in my life at the humble end of society) in ones twenties if one is lucky are THE most important 'civilising' fact or of all on younger men. Full stop.

To me 'feminism' is remiss unless it includes and vociferously reminds society at large of  that role  - a responsibility indeed...

 

Even Sir Nick thinks it's a bit weird

SO to think.....

the ultimate in failure even if not mine: disastrous so called 'campaigners' like Families Need Fathers and even worse journalists.  

Millions of pounds were spent on an ORCHESTRATED full 'test case 2006  - this case... (to quote an actual Sir Nick then " we have had TWO government consolation periods on the issue of openness and i think its time we had at last a big proper fullest possible  test of it, we me and the Pres.... you will do scruff...." at which point i knew i had won, November 2005.

The disastrous so called 'campaigners'  failed to even notice that the CSF Bill was chucked in to the 'washout' 2010  and ...

Well here we have  the end result. The child who gets "tooled" ... cannot even talk about his ;etter to his mates... 

Share ‘26 feb 2025 Mostyn on Today Voice 535.m4a’

 https://drive.google.com/file/d/1bwbvmqKRJHsirrp5oUmTEyRwUUASSDU6/view?usp=sharing

But what is FAR more important as every child did matter (after every judge is given a new 'tool' to write a letter  that of course will tell the truth of entirely inadequate court processes, lies by social workers, and useless lawyers, far more likely the reason the child loses a parent)

Splendid Frank explains so so actually convincingly for a con man...

" when child services came to my house to decide which parent i live with age 16..it caused me to end up soon after bein the most famous con man ever..."

Involving ANY child in ANY proceedings between ADULTS.... was the key main thrust to my whole work from 2004...but they couldn't Listen

(see the film linked 2 years ago here)

But when i heard Natasha Philips - leading goodie goodie anti court child 'campaigner'... on BBc R4 a decade backish (i have a recording i keep full chronicles of Kafka comes to Tea....) also  virtue signalling " of COURSE this young child must have the RIGHT to go to court and take part.." ref a child in the news age 10ish...

When it is your own 'side' who went mad, well theres no hope...

I must write my FULL memoir...now i can. One person knows why. .... some 'secrets' one keeps back until it is the right age-appropriate time.... even if they may have assisted one avoiding  ......well....

 I have decided to do more - or rather go back to the actual reason i began the 2002 legal case....  and to now write about the sexual politics (equality, even 'feminism' ) in the background...

I NEED A  WRITING BASE....a quiet corner of a field or park up of some sorts, in return for a bit of slave work....  

I know my place....  ( a new page is under development)

video ready evening 11march

This video is incomplete.

In my poetical riffing site,  ralph, i OFTEN have referred to how Nomadland is an extremely sexist film  - portraying women van-lifers to use the trendy phrase, as somehow having a less good experience. Even 'attitude' to the life of a person living in their mobile snail shell. 

 I made videos on ralphschism.com maybe 6 months ago (scroll back in the blog) about how scurrilous this was...  'using' women implying fraudulent 'vulnerability'... to get more claps...i must write one proper essay - soon... (even if i have ZERO interest in vans or any machinery)

 

there is a new (cloaked unfindable) page on this site only a few have been specifically invited to peruse..

i may open it out, soon

ooh and a little ehhh....  change. 

For 20 years i never really told the full 'story'. 

I had to tell my daughter something first, before i could relax into telling the WHOLE story  - a rather bad act was never mentioned (to authorities, EVER)  in 2002... not by me.

It was time recently....  now she has been told i can freely speak of all.

For recent arrivals here:

this legal matter was THE test case on privacy/secrecy  - see earlier posts  written over the last 6 months.

as applicable to ALL of civil law ...

Analyse where the line should best be for better overall democratic enquiry in a child case and that sets the bench mark for Court of Protection, Employment...etc

that was the intent! 

on the media page  for the  2006  breakthrough

https://www.simonclayton2020.com/p/media-on-cases.html

  Sophia cannon QC  from London's most famous campaigning chambers calls it "revolutionary" on the telly

Price QC who hated  family division as a load of jumped up amateurs, took it on (even if i had already done the important work) as he  was Uk's superstar media Free Speech QC...

And famous Human Rights advocate... 

https://www.simonclayton2020.com/p/price-qc.html

in fact this case seriously BOOSTED this career

why  his webpage featured it so prominently (see Price QC page)

It filled up with many more famous cases after the first few of us were his initial golden boys..

Decidedly lost journalists (all BBC as it happens!)  have only confused the key issue the last 5 years.... poor lambs....

Earlier posts the last year attempt to clarify all this.

If anyone ever felt like even 'tipping' me for many fairly interesting written takes i have on things  - actually rather well read by number of pageviews to my surprise, which gradually i wish to be my main occupation (it has been already, never paid,  for some years), and never have the online time with a plug to socially media spread (especially as i don't use it) or pimp anywhere....

I have a tipjar / bank account details at https://www.ralphschism.com/p/funding.html (dont worry no one ever has over many years and i have reasonably high, consistent, quite engaged,  readership :-) 

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OOPS. I wrote a 'post' here on a side 'page' some months ago, which merely means occasional add on riffyrants in intelligent language  about the fundamental issues dealt with on this 'homepage'  you will find by scrolling back (bottom right hand corner) several years.

I forgot to link it onto this homepage 

here it is  - I m sure it made sense at the time, especially as absolutely nothing much has changed in 22 years except sadly many of the 'litigants' (many i would assist gratis) went rather wonky...and i was on their side.

https://www.simonclayton2020.com/p/httpswww.html

 why are there 142 pageviews today ?

this (unadvertised, i do no social media have no friends that do) site

 i hardly ever give to anyone except of late a couple of great truth talkers (on the environment)

I never look at (traffic)  stats,  i was merely sort of  preparing to not come back a long time...

in fact i wrote a sort of poetical ... story or two mixed into a stream-of-consciousness sort-of-blog... up until 2018  for 8 years  liesdamage 

I did not know that daily readership was often several thousand  and up to 4000 some days, quite consistently for years,  until just a few days ago... as i had never even looked at the traffic stats....

i just DO stuff..i know is sort of  authentic maybe even 'goodness'... and i don't care what others think, as i have educated myself fully via great lit....  and i take in others great words from the past...

 the photos of the data are on Ralph.

I can write.....so that i really DO engage people...longterm.

Maybe i should give lessons. But a bloke cannot do ANYthing in UK without an armed guard any more, so....  some woman companera whom, cares...?  Is that even possible?

Clayton v Clayton was nothing to do with one clayton as the other had known for decades that a young woman close to her male attachment is FAR FAR more stable and bulletproof emotionally all the rest of her life...

It wasn't about 'equality' for me... it was to, well...

Oldschool people who spoke sense - female ones, indeed THEY would be the first to state unequivocally that THEIR female friends with a good secure daughter-dad thing were....FAR FAR easier to deal with and less dangerous to them, their blokes... and maybe humanity, too...

I gave up on ALL british journalists who are too bad mannered to ever answer any occasional reasonable enquiry.

I seek some artistic collaboration to one day turn some of the story into something artistic...

simonclayton@post.com or 07958 526 three 8 1

 I continued to do some lay legal consulting to various mums who had terrible ongoing injustices preventing them having full lives with their young kids after a separation until last year.

All I hear  - or rather see with my own eyes, is that  the ‘system’ – be it their own useless lawyer, never mind courts, is all just as awful as when I was most active (as lay legal, ONLY for pin money – sarnies and coffee cash of  £5/hr, rather than various who seemed to almost profiteer in that role) 2005 – 15ish. And saw for myself in earlier years.

Although the powers-that-be seem to have cleverly rolled back what Juhn Junk ( a superb principled Lay Legal) called in 2006 The Clayton Lacuna, it strikes me that  there is still need for REAL ‘transparency’ which can only really occur when the citizen is allowed to tell the story, in full…

But I gave up, even the so called ‘campaigning’ ‘charities like FNF seemed to be completely incapable of ever saying anything ‘against’ the hand that fed them in the form of the odd bit of government support.  Became part of the problem. Interestingly a month ago their Chairman sent out a mass email fessing up to “we lost our way”.

However my own very very ‘deep dive’ into the months or years of the life of a litigant – once again faceless, as committed  legal assistant – as most ‘cases’ have mounds of paperwork and many many stories behind them  which take many days to hear out, understand, and double check– most will never even make it to court never mind to the shorthand pad of the “ uk’s only full time family court reporter”   only lead me to one even worse conclusion. And I hate to say this…

Whereas from 2005 to around 2012 or 13 every single ‘victim’ of the system contacting me, one could believe - they always told the truth, from around 2010 and even moreso nowadays one simply never knows. There is so much [xxx]  = fill in the box. I decry labelitis which has swept the world UK especially   - everyone is on some spectrum and every opponent in law (regardless of sex) has some or other ‘narcissism / controlling behaviour / even to quote the ridiculous Mr Peterson popularising ‘dark triad’ … stuck up someone's bum…  but I use BPD ( to me and I studied top psych) merely a behaviour by someone who isn’t psychotic or  hallucinatory  which is so irrational to some reasonable objective measure.  For example there became an increasing  section of litigants who would spend months years compiling the most extensive bundles and paper-based counter attacks after suffering injustice.  And if one met them some  would have even pretty good  analyses of the injustices off pat; doubtless also they spend a huge amount of time on some online platform making their case. However when it is put to them “easy case, that judge made such a plainly dubious statement in..line 2.. para 3 …I really don’t see how you wont be able to have this case progressed quickly enough back onto track, AND it is a simple case as many are. Etc”  they never ever … take the next step.

Sometimes I have wondered if their whole  case has become to them, for them….a performance – performing they are enraged hurt damaged victim of the ‘system’  - some rather well. But they rarely do anything about it. (confident and seemingly quite stable people).

Cynics would call it a  weird postmodern cry for attention.     I think there is something deeper and rarely for me use a label: BPD … borderline personality disorder. I think it is far far far more prevalent throughout the population than allowed.  (and diagnoses or allegations never point in to such furthermore I mean in otherwise fairly functional people who do not present with clear behavioural patterns to block parenting time….. ).

There’s the definition of FAILURE! …its laughable I do….

Last year I looked through someone’s case papers and the phrase (in re Z  - see the judgements page) we had had a two day battle (with NYAS)  to yes create “REVOLUTION” and move forward from ‘dehumanising’ words like ‘contact’   but the case I looked at was dotted with only the old word, ‘contact.

I gave up.

I do however believe in the power of STORY. (myself I don’t do miserable ones)

For a decade I have pretty assiduously roamed  looking for allies – collaboration even, developing and getting out story on what became my greater concern ( too much fruitcake in family law for me these days) the environment.

BUT….any scholar of great culture – high but popular, too,  as I am…. Knows that PIETY AND EARNESTNESS NEVER WORKS…

It never did and never will. Especially in Britain.

The Full Monty, Reginald Perrin, even Rick Mayall, and nowadays almost alone (still allowed to be very rude on the BBC) Alexei Sayle proved that.  And there are many other examples. 

(the best of all in fact how Intouchables the French movie – quite rude in places but he has such a  perfect smile!)  made something like 40x investment  for the makers.

 

I have DOZENS of wry funny (though always dead serious deep down) tales collected about the environment.  And I know one reason that almost all ‘environmentalism’ has failed (it has I am an expert of that failed world, too) is because the Greens…. Cannot laugh at themselves, never mind remember they need to make the (unconverted) LAUGH …..  in other words they are a bit of a deathcult

In fact the not-as-good-a-journalist-as-she-thinks Mrs sarkar   advises us in this

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Av74Yj6CJno&t=1720s&ab_channel=PoliticsJOE

That Extinction Rebellion co-founder (in my last  region, as they became very popular 2018ish – and almost ALL very very mild mannered women who meet for cake were the main members)

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Roger_Hallam_(activist) apparently just did a big “ youre all fucking  cunts” to his once loyal band of pixies…. 

Well… not only would I never be as rude, even when I knew that was a fact a decade ago, but trying to explain WHY they are a bit cun*y … or even make movies about why… surely is required of anyone who cares about the environment enough to lead bits of it

As I have sort of done a bit in 

https://www.ralphschism.com/p/mm.html

But… for a decade I lived IN the ‘environment’ in a very out-of-the way  hamlet with basically disastrous broadband so I couldn’t use the internet much…until 3 years ago I set out to  be elsewhere (gentrified out into rooflessness – best thing that ever happened to me, never mind at least at last I have phone signal  - mobile hotspot tethering the ONE tech thing that DOES work)

Except I don’t have a plug – meandering around in a small  4 wheeled snailshell … and the BPD is so so bad  everywhere that “silence please” in  British library became an act of aggression 15 years ago…

So I rarely have a quiet space, plugged in, to catch up on my only  real enjoyment – jotting, and a bit of storytelling, in such a way I even have time to check through for typos, never mind write the stories fully and thoughtfully.

But I am a pretty good scribe for someone who cannot touch type – well I almost can these days….. rattles out pages of unplanned jotting many a day, not a moment spare to even have a sip of coffee, never mind think…

Which is the wonderful silver lining of bein’ jabbed up the arse by a  whole system that has dark triad syndrome…   you have to really up your game …it happens… I was almost mute in 2002 and would spend  3 days on one paragraph….

Nope…. That isn’t how to live…. Letting go all the way..is…. even if you get arrested for it…. I know the real truths  and sleep perfectly

ANY collaboration on stories welcome always…I never give the link of this site to anyone unless I think they have got maybe a bit of Boudica in them…

And my my we need a few….

(my actual job 10 years meandering seeking them…. The next Voltaire will be a Mrs….Men have no voice in contemporary society I accepted long ago.. but I do have literally dozens of lines for your manifesto…. Worked out over those ten years with dozens of women…….. kindof on the same page….)

0795eight 526three eight 1 7days always from dawn…

 I’m never really off duty because you don’t ‘retire’ from  just..having a go….

"We will hear from the Uk's only full time family courts reporter"*

The end....

Even if my my it seems journalists never mind the almost always awful BBC 'presenters' can stop to think...or research....

Just hyping and saying the first thing that come into their mouths...as if the world changed because they were born with them. 

 

The Media Show

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China's AI win, transparency in family courts, refugee life close 

 

China's AI win, transparency in family courts, refugee life close up

29 Jan 2025

https://www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/m0027cv6

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Five_Ws

The Five Ws is a checklist used in journalism to ensure that the "lead" or "lede" contains all the essential points of a story. As far back as 1913, reporters were taught that the lead/lede should answer these questions:^[1]

• Who? - Asking about a person or animal
• What? - Asking about an object or action
• When? - Asking about a time
• Where? - Asking about a place
• Why? - Asking about a reason or cause
• How? - Asking about the way something is done^[2]

Even google AI not the brightest spark in the universe manages to highlight:

googling: "w rules of journalism"

https://www.google.com/search?q=w+rules+of+journalism&sca_esv=4a2d3e398eea1394&rlz=1C1CHBF_en-GBGB922GB923&sxsrf=AHTn8zrmMBe3OLZUGkMH_2HT6MTmph_qtw%3A1738671313097&ei=0QSiZ5vJBbyyhbIP0eCUwAw&ved=0ahUKEwjb9f2v_6mLAxU8WUEAHVEwBcgQ4dUDCBA&uact=5&oq=w+rules+of+journalism&gs_lp=Egxnd3Mtd2l6LXNlcnAiFXcgcnVsZXMgb2Ygam91cm5hbGlzbTIFEAAY7wUyBRAAGO8FMgUQABjvBUiCOVDtEFj3LnACeAGQAQCYAYUBoAGWCaoBAzQuN7gBA8gBAPgBAZgCDaACrArCAgoQABiwAxjWBBhHwgIGEAAYBxgewgIIEAAYBxgIGB7CAgsQABiABBiGAxiKBcICCBAAGIAEGKIEwgIIEAAYCBgNGB7CAggQABgFGAcYHsICBhAAGAgYHsICBBAAGB7CAgYQABgFGB7CAggQABiiBBiJBcICChAhGKABGMMEGArCAggQIRigARjDBJgDAIgGAZAGCJIHBDMuMTCgB6JE&sclient=gws-wiz-serp

What are the 5 Ws in journalism?

In journalism, the “Five 'W's” are “Who,” “What,” “When,” “Where,” and “Why.” Referring back to the Five “W”s helps journalists address the fundamental questions that every story should be able to answer.31 Jan 2017

" all reportable" (from the radio segment in link above).... 

The clue, as in 2005-6. the 'openness' test case - the highest level of judges possible, and as LJ Wall said at the time to a shaking me in his dungeon at the RCJ  (leave to appeal) "we need a TEST CASE on the whole issue"

As all journalists told me 2003-6 without the slightest hesitation " our editors dont want us bothering with ' a person who cannot be named for legal reasons' court cases, because the public just aren't interested .. they too know the five w's of journalism...  "

* = Hence  i very much doubt there will be much work for Hannah Summers in the longer run...  never mind she will be very lonely sat for years to come, remaining the only one... 

This was all the Clayton Lacuna was about. (that specific issue) 

From 2006 to 2013 ( when the Children Schools and Families Act 2010 was  rushed through Parliament in the 2010 'wash out' nevertheless the parts relating to 'who'  did not 'come into force' for three years) 

and no one even understood it never mind battled to keep all our hard work as the actual "transparency"  prerequisite, protected by campaign and statute. 

No REAL 'fourth estate' coverage - meaning few proprietors will fund proper scrutiny (cases often lasting for YEARS with many hearings over such periods) ...and thus the system can and will and do get away with anything (cruel and horrid towards parents of both sexes - i know as i have Mackenzie Friended more female actual victims of it than men) 

THE POINT of the legal case 2006

https://www.simonclayton2020.com/p/media-on-cases.html

with round 2 i won HANDS DOWN in 2009

https://www.simonclayton2020.com/p/media-on-defense-of-clayton-freedom-of.html

was that if  injustices or worse were potentially ongoing e.g. https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-hereford-worcester-61434785  that resulted in a BBC Panorama that spring (the papers were given to the BBC Panorama team by Lucy Hurds the Libdem councillor for Hereford i know as she told me personally )  the parent facing such heinous acts can THREATEN: " if you f*** with my family life then i will go to the media and expose you" 

TENS  OF THOUSANDS of parents, maybe even 100s of thousands,  will have said just that from 06-13ish to the whole 'system': from judges to CAFCASS officers and even to their own lawyers (well known as the shabbiest of all lawyers in all the legal profession).   And there was some meat in the threat. Now - since 2013, the system knows it will be almost impossible FOR these parents to get Fourth estate coverage...

 (the whole point of this legislation in the first place, the first line in my  official  written representation to the Appeal Court test case in 2006 was " secrecy protects the vested interests rather than the children.." words to that effect  in fact it was far ruder ).

De facto 'secrecy'  - no journalists to go and watch all these cases ...as there is no cash in registering to be there.... is exactly that.

And all the weasels are back weasel wording around....

I think i must be the world record 'activist' ( a real one - that test case was REAL danger)  - quite alone and quite successfully  sorting out a whole legal culture quite deliberately, only to have it all entirely reversed ..by stealth... seven years later. 

THE END

'CAUSES'

 There will be a short how-to specifically for one person at 10.30 ish today.

NOT READY YET - unfinished

sort of alongside 

https://www.ralphschism.com/2024/12/causes.html

I am not a radical. I merely pursue causes that someone would have pursued 40 years ago... nothing new.

healthy psychologies in families especially after rumpus... keeping environments unpolluted... and a few others similarly quite quite old hat... indeed my whole life has been about KEEPING to sane decent things we knew of in the 80s for the 'common good'... i was a selfish  self obsessed twat in my own 20s but saw the light when i spent time from age 30 with someone else's beautiful  infants for a few years..

and i knew...or discovered...once they get to about 5 and you have done phase 1 ish of the lifelong job... then you look at them thinking " well for her sake i really MUST take part or take life seriously.... and just get involved a bit at protecting her society her planet etc..."  which doesnt stop when they leave the nest...if one is lucky it keeps you going for... the rest of life.

She needs to see good role models... i know few.... and that is my only real cause for some years - finding them to bolster them into their causes  - even if just a book.... or maybe podcast or just making one truth talking video... to show the next generation how to maybe better be...  it worked for me - i looked out for great role models in the culture when i was a young adult - there were a fair few pretenders even then but one of a few examples Dith Prahn really did change my life - made me humble in a good way " i could never be as brave and wily as that little brown man"...   but then commeth the day... he was sill inside me ... and i needed to find my Inner Dith just  a little...or roll over and die those are the only two choices...

99.9% in this land seem to not even know of the first...

death rolling by default...in fact they perform the PR of that its all they know

these (three ) legal changes... that culminate in https://www.simonclayton2020.com/p/media-on-cases.html

all came about not by vudu 'magic' nor getting a half sane lawyer to speak at the Appeal Court (my words i wrote in over two years before that showbiz moment) but by three years of PR behind the 'scenes'.

Quite alone, often in fact at great risk to self... with extremely limited resources - as a single parent living in happy penury atop a Mountain with only kid and not even usable internet as we were 5 miles from the phone exchange in the hills with old broken copper wiring 

PR...but it MUST be from the heart and 100% real..i is expert...

as i shall list in a few scenarios a little later today

A recent PR ' semi victory' can be seen here - the cargill email... i shall explain why later

https://www.ralphschism.com/p/mm.html?m=1

But above all... this whole (public) matter began in May 2003... (though 9 months of absurd vindictive failed legal attack on me already had began HOWEVER  it was so  pathetically managed  by authority  - to my horror - i though 'law' stood for something)  here is the absolute key moment behind it all which still applies today (for next generations of cause fighters).

PR... getting out ba true story and telling it well.

Most might be able to internalise a simple (no one's 'fault') bizarre chain of events that had me in a gaolhouse 2003...  as i hadnt even had a parking ticket many years had this matter been in Uk it would have got immediate bail..(while it was sorted out in civil courts) i just happened to be on one of MANY trips abroad in a country  - Portugal, which didn't give bail to anyone - they didnt really have it...

Irrelevant. BUT..

The law of UK is if there are any formal proceedings against you - even for a parking ticket you are fighting in court... the citizen is NOT allowed to comment in public (nor the media).   If you do you break contempt law. Very serious...

(unlike America where almost any comment is allowed in public - there is a limit but the bar is set very high).

Never having even considered calling a newspaper in my whole life in may 2003 from a dingy gaolhouse i put in my first call to the press. Try and get the 'story' out....last resort  (all lawyers thieves who had stolen my cash - taken payments over the phone in England and...and done nothing)

But by a quirk - Portuguese authorities didn't wish to hold me...(were almost laughing when i met detectives.. very friendly to me in person) . only some rather dubious local (Wales) police insisted they wished..(i know not what)... 

BUT because i was not on UK soil i could legally speak out about an only UK legal proceedings against me...  a 'warrant' issued. I doubt anyone has ever done so or if so we are an extreme minority...

had i ben in UK it would have been off to the High Court for contempt  - very serious... up to 2 years gaol (with NO half time contempt law if very brutal in that respect...i.e. equivalent of 4 years) 

So i may be one of the only people ever in UK having had a warrant put out...i still was going to the press regularly (they came to see me in Portugal from UK with a  camera crew)

SO... PR...

even if i was told by top legal man " if you make the choice to carry on speaking out they WILL CRUCIFY you when you return to UK....[ not with contempt law as i was abroad but by other methods knives in back].."

 " ehhh...i have no choice"

the best scariest horrifying stupid decision i ever made in my life....except to want a child in the first place.

 But then began a year  or more (even if kid won back immediately - and that is impossible in 'law'.. but the first judge already had thoroughly enjoyed my true real PR !!! ) of PR... faxin OUR stories... me many a day faxin half the day... use STORIES to reach the hearts and minds (ok most dont have them) of top judges and establishment power people and media gateposts...

PR =  show your backbone, intelligence (i wasn't that smart )...and passion.... 

Errata 09.46

 I said 09.47

Broadcasting House 

https://www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/m002535p

You will find no more functional person than me...

For 25 years always up at 05.30

No matter what.

ALWAYS sharp as a razors edge despite the razors taken to my only care - my 'family'...

As i said  ....LAUGHTER the only test of real healing

Anyway the best most evolving thing of all is FAILURE! World record failing...

The chap on radio 4 yestermorn 09.47 clarifies my WHOLE 'cause' - even if the 2006 case was to seek the right to speak openly about the MAIN useful legal advance in the 2005 case that was put into Jordans Family LAw in full (that never happens) as it was said to be important "template" reform for the whole ferkin bowl of rotten cherries that family 'justice' had become : MEDIATION BY DEFAULT, and the first ever 'Parenting Agreement'  - called Esti's Bill of Rights... Esti went on radio 1 June 2006 to be interviewed about hahh hahh...

After we had had a long day whoring ... around the studios...  for good purpose...  to pimp a useful obvious solution ....I meet people the last decade whose whole lives have been saved by THEIR 'parenting agreement'...

she prob wont even remember but what FUN even if a bit tired so a bit wobbly... nevertheless it did make a dif!

Both became a few years later written into the court forms  from 2010ish (c 100 )  - the real 'victory' !...

And by a weird twist the washout of 2010  John Hemming fat twat didn't even bother voting in...  came in, returning the 'default' position to pre me - everyone gagged forever.... but the powers that be knew was so dodgy they didnt even give it the stamp until 2013 i think...

which means that yestedrday the splendid man on the wireless has to  still once more skirt around 'anonymity' lore

my whole cultural change was to change so we could LEARN truths to help others... 

Mao and Stalin back in charge...

As JAmes HAnning the then very senior powerful Ass Ed of Independent on Sunday said to me 2004 (i knew him well as randomly his family had a really lovely mouldy unmodernised  old cottage by Hay i rented in 1995 ish )

" simon... us newspapers have our balls in the public's vice... nobody wants to read a story ' a child/parent who cannot be named for legal reasons..' so we never print them......if there is state directed vice [ all top journos knew the state was Stasi!]...  the basics of journalism are  that reporting on any injustice or fat bluehair ignorant cow mooing in court when she should be farting as they speak such toxic crap it kills families for decades........ WHO.. where what when why...of the injusticed..... and you need a picture too .."

Anyway myself all i care about is writing or maybe podding one of the classic waffles upon...HOW TO LIVE ON.... after the worst failure in history... to not even hold on to my law.... (though that was the work of the dreadful fakes at Families Need Fathers and other so called 'campaigners' to  carry on protecting EXTREMELY well worked through legislation - my 2006 [started 04-5]  anti anonymity drive had MILLIONS of pounds behind it - two government 'consultations' leding up to it... and 100s of hours of top judge time pondering reform... resulting in the Nov 2005 to Feb 2006 totally 'staged' top test case... 

showbiz!  ... but by 2010 to 13 the whole London 'campaigning' world  especially families Need fathers had been taken over by limp wristed child-men who didnt deserve to be fathers as they had no balls to keep up the fight

oops errata as 1/3 or more were also women 'campaigners'  - just as useless (Heidi Newman founder of Mothers4justice using my 2006 changes a superwoman WITH balls.. but then all the mad harridan drippy moaners took over...moaning about "injustice" - for show.... but never able to DO their cases..... too busy moaning on Fakebook ) ...

basically they all went mad and thought online endless character assassination " s/he is narcissist .."  which started around 2010 also  via FAkebook... such that the whole world paints anyone not them as 'narcissist'..   all gone mad...rather than fight to protect a law change that EVERY top judge mid 2000s and EVERY real journalist from mid 2000s  knew was important (and they supported me.. Gibb and many of the then top female ones who did actually CARE - you should have heard magnificent Sue Reid of The Mail slagging off the top bewigged / ministerial  cunts to me on the blower.... or dead Mrs Robinson of ITV This Morning..... unlike the  non journalists of now  - Berg Tickle et all just doin it to look good... and lying they care)

most wonderful total failure in history! (and in another way too the most wonderful Social Worker in history heard me share yesteraft...) you can live on ...as long as....

well... you have to eventually laugh at it all... and fight other battles a tad..or best of all write EVERY single word of it in a range of Homeric poetic Odysseys... i love to attempt

for fifteen years...

Especially THIS morn way before dawn...

At last motivated by finding the one English reader i never knew may exist...

Randomly found on.... "The Way.."

ralphschism.com  just a maybe temporary two year riff it like it is.. SUPER energised now after one yesterday encounter (utterly anon..unless ..it takes two to tango)

good for me

That is a genuinely enjoyable thing one of various good for the soul things i discovered over 15 years...

HOW...ever....  there is only one fundamental thing of being human for centuries..

There is 'oppression' or power battle....   even if she is a really "simon problem with social workers is 70% are just THICK" to quote senior social worker Rachel Bramble/ Mulhally  - named as she sought attention in public... in 2010 to me...

there are two sides - if you are affected by the ignorant or cruel in a REAL way - rather than making up, for Woman's Hour  appearance expense fees and FAkebook postin'... say.... menopause is something to be pitied for...(which i think only adds to the mind/body distraction that it has turned into ...  blokes have bodily change too which causes mental static )

 genuine life changing bad acts ...

then there should be REAL solidarity within those on the same side of that millennia long equation...  fat power ganging up against others...

 shared oppression should bring people closer... 

sadly i think that ended and thus...no hope ever!

and i have even lived knowing that.... but every morn a decade awake bright eyed "bushy tailed" at way before winterdawn...always...

just poetically ponderin on 'causes' ....sometimes doin'

I have absolutely no idea why

except that i CAN...

I wish i knew just one other person whom also...COULD

The 'End Times'

I .... gave up...

15 of the last twenty years  - since 2003, doing the hardest of 'ministry' to those wrongly suffering unjust human nonsense..

At those meant to be protecting and assisting the family, yet all i have ever heard is

Cant and vanity.

Sadducee and Pharisee.

 

But the real question is, how on earth can this society here on this earth come back, now, from what i full know for some years has been a complete breakdown in rational communication even about children and how we may protect fairly sane people even if with monior issues, fighting back to keep their kids...

https://www.ralphschism.com/2024/10/this-is-england-wonky.html

You can only do that nowadays as part of (volunteer) team.. someone to backup.. (provide a kind of protection and authority)

But that never happens....  

Myself i merely opened up FULLY - leant in with total trust...in 'life' whatever it may be - metaphysically. Seeking in fact collaborators or in fact even those to guide into writing our real stories..i think that is a worthy calling. But even in that mode - obviously truthfully saying to people they should write their stories, or lets work on finding good new ones to write, together (i have so many to share) I cannot tell if anyone ever means their words of interest... and i have spent 1000s of hours on that role - seeking allies for simple honest fellowship in shared messaging the last 15 years...i did my bit. And failed... 

So be it.

Only a few  - three in fact, know what happened. ...next... just this last month. But i am not sure if it is worth sharing as useful story ... 

 

Vetting! for the vet

If the most beautiful vet in the universe looks in here.

Quick essay here - link below,  on ....WHY ...ferrets for kids. 

And link to many lovely videos of ferrets and kids.

Enjoy  

https://www.ralphschism.com/2024/10/righty-ho.html

 this site isnt really for kids even if it was ONLY 'for' kids.

Mr Schism is  rather frank on all of life. And thus not for kids except some of the best ferret videos i put up 5 or 6 months ago on ralphscism, and in a large folder via that link - above in in that post, , are  the best  ferret (only) film in a quite safe google drive folder  - i have many 100 more clips one day to put in there.... you dont get to win the Chatsworth Supreme ferret show  day unless you look after animals, perfectly.. the ferret people - many dozen would be at every show vying for showing the most wonderful real animals and got to know us over that time us attending 4 or 5 shows a year......rthey  judge ALL about you...and they adopted my daughter as their favourite for 5 years. Until she was stolen.. thats what defying the most famous  ever High Court resolution (printed out in full in the lawbooks as "template" for others by Hedley top High Court judge  - i got sacked eventually - only on his gagging order a fundamental madness, but the other stuff  we did on resolution and peace plans.. errata i did on resolution and peace plans...was very good i am not a shrinking violet) , is.. theft...whisked off to Stockholm (syndrome) the year after.

At age 10 1/2 she  was even made an official judge - cojudge but with REAL power, at the Chatsworth House (main annual show)  ferret Champonships - white coat and badge... in front of a large crowd gathered. she being judgerly and looking every inch the pro...

NO nepotism..Northern ferret folk demand purest justice from their judges

The Marches and South West

are literally Stalinist, if like me, one is a very very focused environmental spokesperson. Or was. I gave up over a year ago as both regions consider themselves a kind of 'utopia' with lovely clean environments and lovely special people. Neither of which are true. 20 years chronicling reality, proves.

But you are NOT ALLOWED to suggest their utopias are castles in the sand walled with shattered mirrored glass. If you do they stick a broken shard into your eyes.

But i do..or did....

Carefully at first at

 https://www.ralphschism.com/

( then https://leftovers2022.blogspot.com/ a site of great culture that may inspire others, but i am long behind schedule improving it) 

my most enjoyable first draft ramble road trip.... memoirs or i prefer the word 'reflections' with ongoing interesting action....

i only really write there.

Except i have one new site about only walking  the Pathway.....where i write my very best celebrations of unique people whpo walk.... ..and meeting some rare wonderful Europeans who do. Three of them. In a month. (and others briefly)

It is about 'saudade' - i never knew such wonderful people could be found again. Until i did.... 

But i keep it private, only those i meet face to face do i share it with. 

And i forgot to tell the new younger star of it.... well, in first equal place with a Swiss and Italian... though 'relative' to her age group she is already a "goddess" but MUST WRITE!!! i have a superb library for free i must give away one day.... and no pone here wants it

'social media'

 I don't do.

Only rarely to attempt linking up with a VERY rare seemingly finer mind.

But it is astonishing the one dimensionality of ALL British (blood - i have to add in that as i know one who is different, speaks it mother tongue but her veins run with pure saltpath juice) thinkers, teachers,  so called caring-profession administrators etc.. librarians, except one !!!! she knows who she is...

who for the last few years blame ALL on " well its their social media" - today when the free 15 hours of child 'care' from age nine...months, comes in when they havent bothered parenting the older kids...

And cannot leave their phones alone long enough to be eye-to-eye all the time with their kids even when educated or supposedly not addicted to internet shopping..

Never mind MAKING their kids read plenty of good books! (even bribery allowed - ANYthing to keep them bookreading!)  mossycrow.co.uk about the only one i have seen for years...

There being ALWAYS a way to balance their kids phone use...always..i did it... 

But even worse, as i invented using homemade broadcasting or  even electronic 'pamphleting'  - which had been around 100s of years, to hold to account intelligently the 'vested interests' be they social workers, or others with power, to Rachman Landlords like my delightful ones for 7 years ...  no one even knows what free speech was...and still is, for... those important things, not made up 'hurt' or offence... endemic.

 The cases in the links (post yesterday) included though many miss, the first ONLY Appeal Court challenge (via written submission) of that very freedom to call out via citizen journalism on (2005)  just starting Facebook even Myspace...

And because it was in front of two of the most senior Appeal Court judges, by design, what they decided in the 2006 judgement was in effect immediate primary legislation. Which as i say was the first demand in a 'test case' to use social media for REAL reasons - calling out tyranny.

 Waste of time the whole land went nuts... 

And will forever now blame 'social media' which is neither  social or was hardly ever 'media' as for 10 years i have also studied trying to find just a FEW sane intelligent philosophical voices on it. especially amongst the 'heterodox' thinkers of the intellectual dark web ( where the USA and some UK supposed most important new minds write and speak)... utter space cadets one and all....

ralphschims soon trying to collate MUCH hard work figuring out ANYThing worthwhile saying, other than marry a European to get your Red passport back one day.....yet another thing i have failed at... despite much trying ( a book in that too) .... as in Europe there are still some great modern literature writers.....who write wonderful LIFE AFFIRMING books.... . none here...only pity pieces about people with things 'wrong;' with them...

Ralph

 The name of an old man who mentored me over five years from when i was 11. into...everything. All of me is his spirit mainlined into me, still...and a true old countryman.. a spade is a spade and wasps dont sting if you just chill out and keep still 

Before these dreadful times, when if an adult may - it taking 'a village to raise a child', take innocent pure interest in a child as his guide...he wasn't assumed to have mal intent. I don't even lower myself to using the 'p' word.

I have meandered - i have a special word for it (another site uses), the regions around my past homes in the hills, above Kington, from Clun in the North to -  if one dares, Tafia HQ, Brecon, in the South, for ten years. I set out slowly to diarise everything - George Borrow with a Dictaphone. And latterly for five years, video camera.

My meandering  - roughly 1/3 of my waking hours - usually by foot or very old bicycle,  (buses for longer stretches) , was always dual purpose. On a solo completely unplanned  mission, to at first gently speak with people about Green politics and REAL environmentalism (2014 Green votes being said to be  potentially growing ...organically - their potential vote.... died due the appalling Leominster Green politically aware people of the green party (Herefordshire and Powys too) , not doing politics - rather virtue signalling ONLY among their own tribe, rather than go and speak with farmers of that region i had met and who asked for visits from Green part peeps.. i have perfect recorded records - i cannot be done for libel).

Then returning to the same kinds of people - the maybe not consumerist greedy petrolheads, whom in 2016 ...17 really...it was necessary to see if ANYone would actually DO something to prepare for the possibility of a second EU vote.... 'community' they all nowadays preach, is a con, and does nothing except serve poisonous sugar in cakes once a week pretending to care... you have to do HARD work creating groups who are on the same page and may be there to organise roadside signage or leaflets or talks...  my region was four quite likely swingy  constituencies.

UKIP did all the above and more - 'register' old folk at old folk homes for example ... " aww sweetie hi... if you need a lift down to the polling booth 2016 ... 19 even...well we are offering a free pick up...and if the Dementia is a little troublesome we can help remind you where your tick needs to go..." quite legal. NO pro EU person ever lifted a finger. I know as i made a point over 3 years of finding out who many were in 'front facing' roles such as the many USELESS Art exhibitions of the region (except Laura Lunn) where it was moan moan BEXIT 

Farage deserved his BREXIT and to have retained it...as not one did anything, ever... ohh i tell a lie Rob McCur... was delivering libdem leaflets in Presteigne the day before the 2019 vote... alone...despite having my telephone number and about 10 chats over 3 years "WE need all hands on deck...and to work together to get max bang for buck.."  Nine months before him speaking into my chronicle device admitting to murdering badger cubs in the hills... NOTHING to do with the 'cull' as i had videod many before and after scenes... about 100 destroyed - high up in the hills, no bother to anyone. except the three small trees he needed to harvest around their massive 'sanctuary' set'.., just to harvest about 30 quids worth of timber... a few months before leading harvest festival sermons in his evil Church... 5 km down the hill.... 

The Philosopher king  - AVOWED SOCIALIST...Sean of HAy ..was hustling Labour votes in HAy the day before 2019 last chance...when Labour had no chance  - as we had known for years and only libdems could beat the tories. 

(but keeping just to brexit, so so many exhausting chats with those on the SAME side...all trying to outclever each other... never suggesting what we may DO to attempt further democratic enquiry..i have every word of all those times.. nearly transcribed... it is ahistorical real version of nothing to do with the 'right' wing... but a couple of small wings either side of a fat dead dodo... that isn't even good enough for the roast.)

But it is then the almost full time chronicling from 2020... thats so interesting

Anyway....when i meet people i  slightly 'sort' them... 

 i (rarely these days - no point) give them this website. Which does have the occasional link to the 'working' site - meaning fresh new all the way material , which is ralphschism.com

I chose 'schism' as in fact autumn 2022 i schismed. I had spent three months engaging face to face with over 30 supposedly caring environmentally aware people of the whole region - from N to S...   with her support 'rolling out' Lucy Hurds' (Libdem Hereford - used THIS legal work to feed papers to BBC  Panorama early summer 2022 about NAZI social services and courts destroying families, still) great scheme of putting a Designated Bathing Area on the Wye at Hereford - the BEST way to bring things to a quicker legal head... pollute and you really DO get one up the bum

All thirty said so so so eye to eye "WOW...what a fantastic idea!"

I had meandered through the environmentally aware - according to their FAkebook, and virtue signalling words in farmers markets etc.. They were  - two or three - all you need to get a DBA going, in each of the locations where it would make a huge difference to the other also ruined rivers of the MArches. Lugg Teme Arrow 

Several other locations suggested on the Wye, too.

Every single one was a people pleasing (the really sick version) liar..performing interest... not one ever followed through or answered texts or emails or remembered the conversation next time i would meet them in the streets..of Presteigne, Clun Knighton, Kington, or Ludlow... 

GIVE UP

Forever

...schism 

from twenty years of taking part- - leading a fair few small initiatives in fact. Schism. There is NO point. This whole society is lost. And many..maybe even half have some sort of 'personality' disorder by the reasonable measurement of such things, say 20 or 30 years ago. There will be plenty more sick tragic extreme events...  childmurdering, children... seems the girls started to catch up, too...

(of late many i speak with - - teachers, those in care and social work roles...agree... but they wont speak out of course...)

At Ralph,  (but there is a LOT of 'context' 18 months of many audios and videos  you have to start at the beginning and that will take a year so...

...whatever....assume if you will. I know some of it is very good. Proustian liminal ...  poetic at times.

(and lots of the real story here  - i had to previously keep sort of coy about)

Where also 

https://www.ralphschism.com/p/my-links.html

links to 

https://leftovers2022.blogspot.com/

then 

https://leftovers2022.blogspot.com/p/dadsites.html

and all sorts.

My favourite 

https://illicitgirlsridingclub.blogspot.com/

which has one omission - i hate to lie like all incomers do ... the old lady, probably dead by now...of the drugs - illegal, hard, she would at times snort.... but i managed to keep yet ANOTHER utter fraud from harming my children that  2020 winter into the next summer... who ONLY saw good new times...and joy

And then a masup of other sort of one off sites.

The thing various new people i met sometimes i wroote things for them. NEW things... i couldnt give a toss about my past ... i am only interested in tomorrow.

SO, often i would just invite someone met face to face to see some thoughts on a subject we discussed at length in one of my active live action diary sites... sublime2020.com etc...

if i give someone only simonclayton2020.com  - i dont often do. it is because i have felt, stupidly. they may actually CARE about society and just may one day DO something...or have a cup of tea to discuss possible solidarity regarding all sorts of things need DOING...or just write the book we discussed they want to write...

All people pleasing BS...

But i sometimes make extraordinary impossible discoveries... 

Yesterday i did. The only person i have ever met for sure (and i am no pussy - my radar are superb, and standards quite high - so so many even great young minds i have mentored, fall to bits at the  fifth fence)

who not only CAN go all the way to the last post. And be a great 'public' persona even if she writes a great book, or knitting pattern. 

THE ultimate only funny warrior woman i have met. sad, as we need thousands....no man ever gets listened to after Wayne and Donald...

Her pic at ralph.  For no reason other than to keep my diary records somewhat true... sadly  she will be returning to her motherland...if she lived here i would un-schism to attempt to guide her with  some best culture the leftovers list is designed to assist with...

I havent for four or more years felt there is HOPE ... with anyone, except her.... 

Fuck, she is going to have  hard time ruling as benign dictator, a few countries that need her...especially this one.  SO many here no longer KNOW what democracy actually IS ( .. having standard hard work democratic pushback against greedy polluting cunts - write to, then cajole,  hustle schmooz.. 'leverage'  - polite word for blackmail...your MP to have a word with Cargill... "my official considered advice is fuck off elsewhere as if you stay here we will make it less easy for you than say Sunderland shire.. at least a few of my harassing single issue activists sat in my lobby on hungerstrike, here have read some proper books so they may just manage to get a better quality of diatribe about you in the press,,,Sunderland most of the Northern teachers who never did their job... virtually illiterate so in the medium term the cost benefit analysis is... no thanks"'  mind take part.

The end...until one day just maybe i can knit enough of  thousands of essays ...some far more risque than they may seem (eg on sublime2020.com... ) hundreds of hours of audio waffle (my substack channel) ..

And make just ONE penny from creating at times quite good content..

SOme of my contacts are quite complimentary...sadly far too many are obviously younger men looking for fatherly mentoring...nope, been there, done it... no mare ever...only through books or other if i ever have...a laptop that works, and an electrical socket for a few months...unlikely. As all i care about is getting back to the EU... as i did this summer ...  paradise!

BUT SEE THESE LINKS IN NEXT POST FIRST AS SORT OF SUMMARY OF HERE...and rare new viewer - i don't tell many  new encounters to have a look here at thus site... i have to trust them...

Summary

200 I have wandered around a lot of the South Western Coastal path - 3000km in chunks since early 2024. One meets many teachers, and even social workers, there. And thankfully far more Europeans.

We speak of the total disaster in the British family. It is.

ALL of many schooltreachers i speak with in their 40s to 60s want to leave or are on the verge of.

And so so interestingly, speaking with many Europeans  - mainly mothers, asking them if their children have friends who  are whipped up into stress or angst by " false allegations, self harm, eating disorders, mental health issues,  drug guzzling, and gender issues" most - except from a few of largest cities, look at you funny. They don't know what you are talking about.

Whereas even in the SW of Uk never mind The Marches and ALL even suburban UK parents speak of these things as the norm.

A few stupid middle aged (always middle class and often arty) Brits try and bullshit  you with " we have hope and we must manifest positivity"  ... 

They won't have bothered to read Affluenza which already identified trends  which led to all this, from early in the 00s. Nor suggest to their  daughter son or niece " ehhh...  the grandkid... it is crystal clear if you follow LAbour Patry moaning entitled policy they have been adverting 5+ years... ten in fact, that so as to afford the absurd new £500 pram  or 'infantile transport system with bells on' you return to work 6 months after birth, or in fact farm them out even three years.......   or even put the kid in full time education  at five.. you will screw them up.. for life"

There is no hope as the cost of so much dysfunction was NEVER sustainable. Europe spends far less state money on family 'care' and state interventions (and millions picking up the pieces when things go wrong)  because it is not viable longterm. Society  is only financially  viable  if  neighbour or family members are involved far more in mentoring, advising, guiding..families in a mess. In the UK you may face a harassment lore,  threat just for helping a young man neighbour with his CV a few times...after he says he wishes that. But gets sulky....due the high powered skunk. Nowadays more likely, ketamine.

And... no one seems to get it any more - transparency assists REAL discussion...

THis is the (partly fantasised by media as thats the way media works - hype up a story which was never really relevant) principles that the big case took forward.

https://www.simonclayton2020.com/p/media-on-cases.html

And then three years later, out of the blue, a (de facto) 'reversal' is announced in parliament...  within four months JAck Straw is on tv eating his words. Only because of one person as he full well knew - i am quite sure the senior women journalists of The Times  - one the most senior, my new quite sincere friend,  told him who wrote her copy..as legal Ed of The Times... telling the country he is 'hoodwinking' the people...

https://www.simonclayton2020.com/p/media-on-defense-of-clayton-freedom-of.html

And as for environmental matters. Soon i take forward an attempt - merely by writing my memoirs of 20 years of eco frauds at Hay-on-Wye and West Herefordshire,  at blocking this 100% scandalous false legal case...  because not one EVER did a thing to address pollution in the Wye over 20 years. And now they smugly bay via the courts for big payouts... that is no example to set the next generation.

Even if they really are in a terrible mess...i know i speak to their mums who actually tell me the truth.

BIUt more than anything else how wonderful... though not for her i fully empathise with. She knows my story... as i heard hers....on the SW path justa few days ago..... how a 30 year social worker was so attacked and suffered terrible injustice by the system - including vicious false allegations by a mother who wished to destroy her... the mother of her grands... merely for being part of a legal case supporting her son father of those grands.. and one of the worst cases of injustice i ever heard... 

The reason this continues, is the 100% wet blanket failure to keep REAL solidarity and community among those of us who from the mid 00s were successfully reforming this family system...

Or simply in oldschool words.. ego.

I write a lot elsewhere... the links are in here below...some of them.

 

The sad truth

 Having  returned, UNPLANNED,  a dozen    times since summer 2020 to lay legal voluntary work on family issues (and some addicted parent  rescue cases everyone killing themselves 2020 even sane ones with kids ...) and recently having put my head back into that world on behalf of a few in dire straights, i am reminded of the reality of years of my family work since 2005 and how by 2013ish...a truly impossible new paradigm had arisen, making it all virtually a waste of time. And i would be granted power of address in the highest courts. But the litigants simply had lost it... 

and it just gets worse

audio essay on main site here..... IT matters. Themes there effect the majority of under 50s now and ALL your futures

 https://www.ralphschism.com/2024/05/uk-parent-child-damaged-psyches.html?m=1

On the environment

https://www.ralphschism.com/2024/04/efficiency.html

loops back to a special page here,

The ultimate heretic me

https://www.simonclayton2020.com/p/wye-mar-2024.html?m=1

(BUT there is one more hidden page only a few have seen to date, soon it gets uncloaked..its even more heretic)

NO one has ever supported my often 15  unpaid hours a day on eco the last 10 years... hence   even laptop so old its hard to type...

funding drive soon for memoirs

sort of started here

https://ralphwalkson.blogspot.com/2024/04/fundraising.html

This site

 Looks a mess. 

But the 'art' (almost 'performance art' -  and i know top real contemporary art despite being a 75% total rural yokel)  is in the movement - this site 2022 to late 23; and in fact between the 'posts' here. Meaning, and Ralphschism.com my writing/ jotting site since Feb 2023,  attempts to explain - many good podcasts there on all sorts,  rather just a messy reflection of how between grabbed moments of a free electric socket, attempting to precipitate into words hundreds of very vey deep conversations with a whole range of supposedly 'caring', educated, Guardian reader types from 2020, ever single one has been fake.

All - 95% of mothers i speak with (and have kept a truly fullest chronicle diary of ), for these  last 4 years (many ignored the hysteria of 2020 where i had been living  - very very rural one had to just get on)  state (in the sort of 'reboot' from 2022) that society and the environment is pretty toxic, drug infested, and like never before turbulent for children and young adults (and thats just the river Wye bathers i jest, truthfully)  yet none ever ever 'follow through' many suggestions from me as to how to attempt to reframe things a little, or just join up in mutual support, via a collective of sane adult no-nonsense writers.

All i have ever done comes down to one thing, a good psychological  setting for kids (NO clever gimmicky new therapy-culture words as they are 95%  wrong - i'm a lifelong student of real psych) . The environment of the future will ONLY be saved and protected if the young adults of this century have had good functional upbringings, and enough of them IN the 'environment', so they steward it onwards..

 The two matters are inextricably linked. And they are the only two 'issues' i really care about. 

But both - REAL environmental stewardship, and real healthy calm balanced psyches for kids.... in the UK have failed almost 100% .

Don't believe feel good crap in any media or 'workshop'  or in Hay-on-Wye  style Messianic Facebook preaching. 

 Ralph went out to enquire further 3 years ago what do mainly middle aged mums REALLY think - those with fairly comfortable rural lives, having moved away from the busier cities and suburbs, ...and those who are educated enough to have some kind of genuine original thought, and all say, all has gone very very messy...

And as change takes a LONG time....  as sure as ferrits are ferrits there is a queue for who can one day outdo Ms Letby...   Many many descendants have  received even more classic training in .... to be cont

AND - all - my only intent and wish for the rest of my life is to write up, many interesting enough stories, though some 'artistically' ...  but it is nearly impossible to get through infantile  anodyne publishing gatekeepers nowadays...  so i have to try and find patronage somehow ... ralphschism.com has some details etc

links to new eco (and fake EU concern - all the same people) chronicling/ telltale site https://www.pseudeia.com/

peek a boo

 ... that's got lots of readers now, may as well unhide it....

especially when even your 7 year long SUPPOSED eco 'allies' in the uk....all men are LOST to their awful silly internet rabbit holes and ego mania...

he...the last one sacked... may use it to stab me in the back,too....  one of the main naughty girls walking up his scrotty high st many a day.. (TOTAL fraudsters, her in the case..." ohh simon of course we are in it" ...i saw her on Easter Sunday, in new region....... a rancid old thing of 65...  utter fraud...never lifted a finger to even answer M|ANY messages over the years ' Helena you said you cared...to my face...well would you just help a LITTLE bit saving rivers or wildlife with one SMALLEST ... referral/contact etc....or befriending that nice man, ecoscience REAL genius...  lonely needs intelligent friends like you.?'... a woman i've known 25 years.... from very close up...years at that now polluted river she would coo over my daughter age 2.. 5 ...10.... as best fun engaging kid she ever saw...... never even replied to one...never mind lobby MPS go to planning meets..... and has the affront to perform victimohood,  for bigbucks, of polluters of a river she hasnt lived by 10 years or more.... in front of me ...)

https://www.simonclayton2020.com/p/wye-mar-2024.html